The careless Husband!

So there is this man who doesn't care about his wife or his son whom his she bore him through CS! The straw that broke the camel's back was:
The wife underwent CS and her mother came visiting, then the wife's mother fell sick at night that she vomited 11 times that night!
According to the woman, the man didn't do anything, he only cleaned her vomit once and left her all by herself and her weak daughter the other ten times!
They work up at morning to find out he had already left! He didn't even check on his weak wife who just underwent a surgery, or his sick mother-in-law, he didn't even call them throughout the day! They were shocked when he came back home at 10pm and went straight to his bedroom to sleep without even asking about them!

Now the question on life talks is>>> If this situation was turned around, he was sick and his mother came around and also fell sick at night, vomited 11 times and his wife ignored them and left for work early morning, then she returned around 10 pm and went straight to the bedroom to sleep without even checking up on them, what would people say??? Or what would he say?? SHE IS A BAD WIFE!, His mother will be like>> GOD FORBID MY SON CAN NOT MARRY YOU AGAIN! Yo must leave!! SMH!
We should all learn to do what is right regardless of our gender or role in the family! A Wife should do what's right at the right time likewise a husband!
What do you think?